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I Was Seeing a Massage Therapist for Three Years and We Became Very Close Friends

by Dan Savage September 16th, 2021September 15th, 2021

I’m a 35-year-old straight woman living in the Midwest. I was seeing a massage therapist for three years and we became very close friends. I referred my friends to him […]

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Long Story Short, I Want To Be Done Being Kinky

by Dan Savage August 19th, 2021August 18th, 2021

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My Partner Found Out He Didn’t Like My Body When We Were Having Sex for the First Time

by Dan Savage July 14th, 2021July 22nd, 2021

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He Actually Told Me He Was Dating Other Women When We First Met

by Dan Savage June 10th, 2021June 9th, 2021

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How Do People Who Do Gay Porn Meet Someone Who Doesn’t Just Sexualize or Fetishize Them?

by Dan Savage May 12th, 2021May 12th, 2021

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I’m Arguing for the Freedom to Do an Illegal Drug

by Dan Savage April 7th, 2021April 7th, 2021

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I Wish Her Exes Had the Courage to Tell Her Their True Feelings

by Dan Savage March 10th, 2021March 10th, 2021

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My Sixteen-Year-Old Son is Stealing Our Sex Toys

by Dan Savage February 10th, 2021February 10th, 2021

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Is It ‘Come’ or ‘Cum’?

by Dan Savage January 13th, 2021January 14th, 2021

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He Informed Me That He Deposited My Come From a Blowjob in my Half-Finished Casserole

by Dan Savage December 9th, 2020December 9th, 2020

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