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How Do People Who Do Gay Porn Meet Someone Who Doesn’t Just Sexualize or Fetishize Them?

by Dan Savage May 12th, 2021May 12th, 2021

I’m someone who does gay porn for a living. How do people who do gay porn meet someone who doesn’t just sexualize or fetishize them? I can’t eat, sleep, and […]

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I’m Arguing for the Freedom to Do an Illegal Drug

by Dan Savage April 7th, 2021April 7th, 2021

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I Wish Her Exes Had the Courage to Tell Her Their True Feelings

by Dan Savage March 10th, 2021March 10th, 2021

Columns

My Sixteen-Year-Old Son is Stealing Our Sex Toys

by Dan Savage February 10th, 2021February 10th, 2021

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Is It ‘Come’ or ‘Cum’?

by Dan Savage January 13th, 2021January 14th, 2021

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He Informed Me That He Deposited My Come From a Blowjob in my Half-Finished Casserole

by Dan Savage December 9th, 2020December 9th, 2020

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My Girlfriend Wants to See What Other Women Are Like

by Dan Savage December 3rd, 2020February 10th, 2021

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Why Are Threesomes Much More Accepted Than Foursomes?

by Dan Savage November 11th, 2020November 11th, 2020

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Disclaimer: I’m an Extremely Jealous Person with Huge Trust Issues

by Dan Savage October 29th, 2020October 29th, 2020

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I Hate Sitting Here Feeling Like My Marriage Was a Lie

by Dan Savage October 14th, 2020October 14th, 2020

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