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* SAFER Campus asks why reproductive coercion—-or birth control sabotage—-ain’t criminalized yet. One woman shares her story, naturally, on Facebook:
A recent event has caused me to question [what] it means to be sexually assaulted . . . While sleeping with a guy [he] decided to take off the condom without me realizing it and when he was fingering me he pulled out my nuvaring without telling me. I saw [my] nuvaring on the ground and he admittedly told me that he had pulled it out. The next day I wrote Eric an email asking him to never contact me again.
I think that birth control sabotage should absolutely be considered sexual assault; consenting to one sex act doesn’t imply consenting to all of them, and consenting to sex with and without a condom are two very different things. (Just in the interest of clarification: You can remove the NuvaRing for up to three hours and still be prevented from pregnancy).
* Alyssa Rosenberg is eager for Hollywood to write some gay love stories that aren’t expressly political.
* Violet Blue points us to “Super Sexy CPR,” a video that uses super porny imagery to teach the elements CPR. Perfect for the next time you need to resuscitate a lingerie model, but sexily.
* My Sex Professor gives you a primer on incorporating the foot into your sex life.
* Nerve ranks the sexiest women and men of LOST. You fools are so wrong about Eloise.
* Susannah Breslin with a great essay on Max Hardcore, the porn giant currently imprisoned on obscenity charges:
I had seen Max’s movies. I found them terrifically depressing. To be clear, I have seen many, many (far too many, really, come to think of it) movies that fall into the explicit, depraved, and explicitly depraved category. I’ve seen cophrophagy porn, senior citizen porn, a porn in which Ron Jeremy appeared as a baby in an adult diaper and a bonnet, midget porn, world-record setting gangbang porn (I was present for one of those, and it’s hard to say which was worse), so-called “ready to drop” pregnancy porn, and a movie in which a series of young women had sex with men and then promptly threw up onto a black tarp spread over a sagging bed after taking what I assumed to be Ipecac. Suffice to say, it takes a lot to shock this reporter when it comes to porn movies. Max’s movies aren’t shocking — not most significantly. They are sad. Everyone suffers. No one is happy. If joy is located at one end of the spectrum, this is where its opposite resides. This is the monstrous mating of unfulfilled longing and untenable hate. Their progeny: an abomination.
(Unconvinced? Try this.)
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