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Every day in every way, I’m getting more socially adept. Well, maybe not. But one no longer need feel the stigma of a double-digit IQ—current theorizing has it that humans have ā€œmultiple intelligences,ā€ one of the more important being ā€œsocial intelligence.ā€ This kind of smarts lets one ā€œaccurately perceive the social environment and act accordingly.ā€ In other words, Mr. Life of the Party—who winds up with all the women while you, a doctoral candidate, for God’s sake, weren’t even invited—should be a figure of study, not scorn. William Strein, of the University of Maryland’s school of psychology, explains ā€œSocial Adeptness—Another Form of Intelligence and Its Effect on Our Mental Healthā€ at 7:30 p.m. at the Alexandria Library, 4701 Seminary Rd., Alexandria. FREE. (703) 212-0010. (Dave Nuttycombe)