While we’re waiting for the economy to really take off, this Handbook for the Newly Poor and the Poor New can help those Americans who have been working as hard as ever, but finding they don’t have quite enough cash or even credit to participate fully in America’s mainstream way of life. It can also help recent immigrants struggling to adapt to a low-income existence in a foreign land.
The Handbook identifies problems that the newly poor and the poor new are likely to encounter, and it explains how to avoid them, surmount them, cope with them, or just ignore them.
In the interests of frugality and environmentalism, to save paper we have merged our table of contents with our index and included them both in our introduction. We haven’t had time to write the actual text yet, but we’ll turn to it just as soon as we get our car through inspection.
INTRODUCTION
Maintaining self-esteem
money isn’t everything
unhappy rich people, thumbnail sketches
of King Richard III, Howard Hughes
finding spiritual values in a weak economy
church services, still free
Housing
relatives, staying with
the “invitation,” negotiating extended stays
etiquette
low-cost hostess gifts
sharing one bathroom: how long is a long time?
occupancy limits
time-sharing concepts
family members as “guests”
apartment or tenement: state of mind?
landlords, dodging
building supers, finding
decor
trash-collection schedules in preferred neighborhoods
objets d’art sans argent: the best of the free calendars
moving, impromptu logistics
Transportation
cars
insurance vs. the power of prayer
funny engine sounds
what they can mean
when to start worrying
repairs
junkyards: those dogs!
inspection
getting through
waiting, things to do while
the inspector, working with
special “thank you” ‘s
dealing with rejection
buses
waiting for, things to do while
bus-stop etiquette
managing eye contact
when it’s OK to talk
how to tell if the bus is late or was early
boarding
exact change, if you don’t have
irritable drivers, appeasing
seatmates
selecting wisely
when it’s better to stand
hitchhiking
location! location! location!
making a good first impression
grooming, posture, attire
facial expressions that make cars stop
signs
specificity as a function of proximity; e.g., from Atlanta, “Orlando,” or “Florida”?
legibility: e.g., “Springfield, MA,” or
“Springfield, MO”?
screening for psycho drivers
telltale bumper stickers
funny eye movements
in-vehicle etiquette
expressing interest in drivers’ stories
walking
destination: fitness
Cuisine
lunch pail, turning your briefcase into a
trade-off studies:
calories vs. nutrition
nutrition vs. bulk
grease and sugar vs. vitamin B-1
food vs. money
eating in day after day
variety placemats from magazine covers
the magic of Tabasco sauce
bulk food, storage tips
plastic drums as end tables
nonfat dry milk cartons as room dividers
TV cooking shows: enjoying imaginary meals
dining out(side)
all-seasons picnicking, recipes for
spaghetti alfresco
oeufs à la neige
Fashion
preferred thrift shops
dressing up in other people’s clothing can be fun
period looks
disguises
Fitness
see “Transportation, walking,” above, and “Appliances,” below
walk-up apartments: the original StairMaster
Appliances
funny sounds
what they can mean
when to start worrying
substituting human labor for
The laundromat
stains
removal
disguise
waiting, what to do while
acoustic properties, enjoying
the cosmic hum, grooving on
social opportunities, maximizing
fabric softener, sharing
articles of clothing, swapping
Shopping
those discount stores!
clerks, how to find
garage sales vs. yard sales vs. flea markets: distinctions with a difference?
Entertainment & recreation
conversation: taking turns talking
shopping without buying
consumerism as a drug, just say “no” to
shoppers: studies in acquisitiveness
stores: studies in display and fetishism
the park, your home away from home
drug-free parks, directory of
movies, enjoying reviews of
TV
cable, living without
reruns, better than commercials?
commercials, better than silence?
public library
being quiet
looking at magazines
books, why some people like them
sex
adding variety to
at home vs. outdoors
day vs. night
fantasy
see also, “waiting, things to do while,” passim
Health care
short-term treatment strategies
instant relief: complaining
symptom abatement: aspirin
diversionary tactics: Epsom salts
long-term treatment: the emergency room
the waiting room, foretaste of eternity
biofeedback techniques for pain management
etiquette
napping dos and don’ts
negotiating TV-channel selection
the doctor
humanitarian or entrepreneur?
his burnout, what it means for you
making the most of the one-minute exam
Family finances
deficit spending: what you can learn from the federal government
income supplements
why look up when you can look down? finding money on the sidewalk
coupons: training small children to clip
building motor, consumer, and arithmetic skills
contests, making your children enter
after-school jobs: child-labor laws, state-by-state
private charity vs. public assistance
humiliation & abnegation vs. documentation, verification, & investigation
applying for aid
the waiting room
waiting, what to do while
etiquette: what to say when you run into friends
(see also “Fashion, disguises,” above)
your caseworker
gatekeeper or frustrated philanthropist?
her burnout, what it means for you
waiting for the check: Is five months a long time?
money, running out completely
negative-balance estate-planning
concealing your heirs from your creditors
waiting to die, what to do while
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