It is no small wonder that Anthony Falzarano wants to try to help the gay community (“Exit Strategy,” 11/26). He has his perspective. What he doesn’t realize is that not everyone in the gay community is a sex addict, not everyone is a porn addict, and not everyone believes that same-gender monogamy pisses God off. If Falzarano wants to help, let him change those who want to change, while supporting the right of those who don’t want to change. Until he can do both, he’s not doing what’s ethical.

Shelby Township, Mich.